Marriage- should it be happily ever after...?

"Happily married, found the right one, love u forever...."

Really? Is marriage really like that?

How would you determine if you have found the right one for yourself?

Marriage to me is not happily ever after.. we would be too innocent to believe in fairy tales.

How long do you need to take to understand a person? You cant prepare or know any person long enough to be ready for it. I cant even understand my parents at times despite. staying with them over 30 yrs!

Best is not to get married. You dont need marriage to tie down a person if he or she doesnt love you anymore.

I am tired of trying to understand the man who sleeps next to me every night. I am tired havig to quarrel with him. I am tired of his uncouth behaviour. I am tired of his actions or words at times.

I miss the man who used to be less argumentative. I miss the man who shows me how much he loves me. I miss the man who smiles at me shyly. I miss the man who doesnt say much and only say things necessarily.

Its late, i am tired having to think so much...heading bed now